Boundaries and Safety in Your Spiritual Exploration
As you begin to honor your intuition, you might feel drawn to explore it further with books, workshops, or even a session with an intuitive guide or psychic. While this can be a supportive step for some, it is vital to proceed with awareness and clear boundaries to protect your emotional and financial wellbeing.
Your inner wisdom is your own. The goal of any healthy guidance should be to empower you to trust yourself more, not to create dependency on an external source for answers.
Be aware of these red flags when considering any intuitive or spiritual service:
Guarantees and Absolutes: No ethical practitioner can guarantee a specific outcome, predict the future with 100% certainty, or claim to have all the answers for your life.
Fear-Based Tactics: Be wary of anyone who tells you that you have a curse, are surrounded by dark energy that only they can remove, or that something terrible will happen if you do not follow their advice. This is a common tactic to create dependency and fear.
Pressure and Urgency: If you feel pressured to make an immediate decision, sign up for an expensive package, or believe that this is your “only chance,” it is best to step away. True guidance respects your timing and your free will.
Large, Unexpected Fees: Be cautious of anyone who requests large sums of money, especially upfront, for services like “spiritual cleansing” or removing blockages. Professional and ethical practitioners have clear, transparent pricing.
Instead of seeking external validation, focus on safer alternatives that empower you. You might find a mindfulness or meditation class at a local community center. You could explore books on intuition from respected authors. When considering any teacher or guide, trust your gut feeling about them. Do they feel grounded, respectful, and ethical? Do they empower you or make you feel small?
Remember, exploring your intuition does not need to cost anything. The most potent tools—your breath, your attention, a simple notebook, and walks in nature—are entirely free. If you do choose to invest in a book or workshop, see it as a helpful supplement, not the primary source of your wisdom.
Most importantly, intuition is a partner to your rational mind, not a replacement for it. Never stop taking prescribed medication or ignore the advice of your doctor, therapist, or financial advisor based on a gut feeling alone. Use your intuition as one valuable source of information as you make thoughtful, well-rounded decisions.
