They want you to quit your job and give up your dreams
Some people out there (especially MEN) want to define their masculinity by being the only breadwinner in the family.
While for some couples might work, for others is a huge red flag. This applies even more if the demand implies that you have to ignore your talents, abilities, and any other career prospects you might have had in the past. All because your spouse feels bad for your success? No, thank you!
We’re living in 2023, and the woman can earn just as much, if not more, than the man. Those relationships can be even more successful than the traditional ones we’ve been accustomed to.