Helplessness
They were everything to you, and they played a lot of important roles in your life. You were always there for one another, and nothing could bring you down. You were made for each other; you were soulmates, and you also completed each other perfectly. You were once whole, but now everything has shattered.
The feeling of helplessness that is left behind after the loss of someone you love can’t be described in words. It might feel like you lost the very best part of yourself, and now all that was good is no longer there. You might wonder what you can do now about all of this.
One thing is certain: nothing will be the same, but this is not necessarily a bad thing. We know that it is painful, and no one wants this, but change is natural and is a process that is constantly taking place.
In the beginning, all of this might be difficult to adapt to. Who will help you file your taxes? Who will do the laundry and cook? Who will drive you home at night? These are all questions that every one of us will ask because this emptiness makes us feel helpless.
