They want you to keep a bad secret and even lie for them
You shouldn’t feel obliged to find out about something immoral or illegal that your partner did and keep the secret, ESPECIALLY if it harms your inner peace.
It’s a general rule that secrecy and lies of any kind might damage your relationship, and it’s simply unfair for your partner to be so selfish and put you in a position where you’re forced to choose between their love and doing the right thing.
If your partner is hiding something from you, it would be an act of love to let them deal by themselves and face the consequences of their actions. Do you think the wives of mafia mobs knew all their secrets?
