6 Rules for Being Polite at Walmart (and Anywhere, Really)
It can be an adventure to shop at Walmart: sometimes smooth, sometimes chaotic. No matter if you’re on a quick grocery run or hunting for the best deal, when you show a little politeness, it goes a long way.
Here are some simple rules to keep things pleasant for yourself and everyone else.
1. They don’t block the aisles
We’ve all stopped in the middle of an aisle to decide between the $1.2 almond milk and the store-brand one. We get it; it has the fancy packaging, and it promises eternal youth. The thing is, Walmart aisles are already kind of queasy, and parking your cart sideways creates a real traffic jam.
Considering sometimes people are in a rush or they have kids hanging off the cart, be the reason someone’s day gets easier, not annoying.
When you feel yourself about to zone out in the middle of a decision or a text message, better put your cart to the side like you would if you needed to let your friend pass. You’re not losing your place in the world while creating space for other people to move around.
This small gesture matters with all the little battles we all have going on when we walk into Walmart. Being polite, say, “I see you, and I respect your space. Get your waffles in peace.”
2. They don’t act like there’s no human in the store
Saying “excuse me” or “thank you” may not look that deep, but it is. I’ve noticed a lot of people act like ”excuse me” is something reserved for royal ceremonies. In a crowded store, full of strollers, carts, and towers of discounted cereal, these little extra words can shift the whole energy.
Walmart is a store full of people who might be tired, overwhelmed, working night shifts, or dealing with screaming kids. Sometimes, a warm excuse me or a genuine thank you could feel like one soft moment in their chaotic day.
It doesn’t cost you anything, so look around and talk like there is another human standing next to you, because there is.
Plus, when someone else says it to you, don’t ignore it. Say “you’re welcome” and smile back, as this is the kind of energy that makes a regular Tuesday grocery run feel a little less lonely and a lot more decent.
3. They don’t let their cart in the middle of nowhere
Leaving your cart in the middle of the parking lot must be a relic from a scavenger hunt—wild behavior. I know you’re in a rush, it’s cold, or your toddler just launched a granola bar into the backseat, but please, bring the cart back.
Leaving our carts scattered around adds to the slow chaos that makes everything feel even more annoying. Someone’s car could get scratched, someone else might have to hop out of the car to move the cart so they can park, or someone’s grandma might have to wrestle the runaway cart before it crashes into a bumper.
Putting your cart back is one of those quiet things that shows how much you care about other people. And hey, if you see a cart on your way to the corral and you’ve got a free hand, grab it, too. You don’t have to wear a cape to be a good person, and sometimes being kind looks like pushing two carts into the rack. It’s just the polite thing to do.
4. They don’t harass the self-scan machine
I love a good check-out moment when I’m quick and focused. I scan like I’m on a game show, but let’s be real, sometimes it turns into pure chaos. The scanner doesn’t beep, the scale thinks you added a watermelon while it’s just a bag of air, and the machine starts to yell “assistance needed,” like you committed a felony.
Now take a deep breath. It’s not the end of the world; you will have to wait while the person coming to help you is dealing with five other confused people and trying not to get yelled at. So don’t. Don’t yell.
Self-checkout is not about no humans involved, but about steering the ship a bit more. There’s still crew around, employees trying to keep things moving, shoppers waiting for their turn, and yes, people with 49 items in a 20-item zone.
Here is what I do.
I like to think I move efficiently but calmly. If something won’t scan, I prefer to wait for help instead of aggressively mashing the button. The staff there is not the same staff who programmed the machine, so I don’t throw attitude. My favorite part? If I see someone struggling, I don’t stare or judge. We’ve all had our moments when we questioned everything we know about bags and barcodes while at self-checkout.
It’s important to remember that self-checkout is not a competition but a modern convenience. So, shouldn’t we treat others with the same grace we’d want if we were the ones fumbling with the frozen peas?
5. They don’t yell at employees
For people who need to hear this: the people working at Walmart are not your personal punching bags. If something is out of stock, the egg prices are raised, and the store policy itself is not their fault.
People easily lose control and talk down to employees like they’re less than. The thing I’m thinking about is maybe they’ve been on their feet for seven hours, and they smiled at you even though they’ve already dealt with three rude customers before 10 a.m.
I know not every employee is sunshine and rainbows; some of them are tired, and some don’t say much. But guess what: that’s allowed. You don’t know what kind of day they’ve had, so respect doesn’t have to be earned every second. You can just offer it by default.
Being kind to employees is about who you are when nobody’s watching, and it feels good to leave a place knowing you were a decent human being.
6. They don’t judge what’s in other people’s carts
If someone has three boxes of corndogs or enough ramen to fill a college dorm, it’s their business.
Maybe some people are shopping on a budget or picking up groceries for an elderly neighbor; maybe they have a harder week, and the frozen mini-cheesecakes are their lifeline. You don’t know their story, and you don’t need to.
The moment we stop sizing up what’s in someone else’s cart is the moment you know you’re out of the quiet comparison game. Even if ten bottles of soda or everything organic is not on your plan, it’s not your health or wallet, so it’s not up to you to comment, even silently.
What if one day you’ll have to run to Walmart in pajamas and buy pads, cat food, and a single lemon, all while looking like a goblin? I’m sure you’d want the same safe space to exist where no one stares, smirks, or judges. Keep your eyes soft and your thoughts kind; we’re all just trying to get through the day (one cart at a time).
If you’re interested in the way people interact with each other and you like to be your best version, you can check this book out: Body Language [3-in-1], by Kirstin Rae Evans.
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