6. She keeps on blaming you for everything
Every time she’s at a low point in her life, she blames you for that. It’s all because she married you. Is her office too far from home? It’s because you decided to move to a new house. Doesn’t she have enough money to buy the clothes she wants? It’s because you wanted to buy that car.
Even when she makes the wrong decision, she throws you under the bus. If your wife does this a lot, you’re dealing with an absolutely devious woman.
Manipulative people are adept at making things up out of nowhere and twisting words. If she makes a wrong decision, she’ll pretend she did it because she took your convenience into consideration, so now she has to deal with the repercussions of it while you aren’t helping.
A manipulative wife will make you seem responsible for her personal failures. Because you didn’t help out with household duties, she has been injured physically, fired from her job, or had any other trauma or stress-inducing experience.
Because of the stress of parenting, managing a home, or other kinds of issues, she had an outburst. She’ll keep making you seem like the bad guy for things you didn’t do until you apologize.