3. Complaining too much
Negativity is the thief of joy and is 100% a turn-off. Don’t take it the wrong way: we all complain from time to time and ask our partners for advice and understanding, but when someone is always negative and angry with the things that happen in their lives, things aren’t good between them.
Just imagine being with someone who doesn’t have a nice word to say about anything but rather is full of complaints and anger towards everything that goes on in a day. It makes you feel tired, angry, and even frustrated.
They actually transmit their negative thoughts and project their insecurities onto you, which can easily transform into a red flag.